> wife is worried that they think we are swingers

I live in Houston, the 4th largest city in the USA (soon to surpass Chicago for 3rd place because of all the recent growth). Fun fact: there is like one goth dance club and one maybe two dungeons (not including private dungeons). But swingers clubs? Fuck there has to be at least a dozen I know about. Oh and apparently there is some all men's bathhouse somewhere (heard about it, never been). Lots of gay bars.