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SO glad you posted this question, I was just thinking today that it had been awhile and like you I hope that she is ok.

I have a girlfriend (we always joke that we're going to get married, so that will probably happen) who's moving in with me soon. She's also an amazon who has done modeling before and I'm really ugly compared to her, but I'm saving her from a bad situation, so she feels some kind of loyalty to me. Truth be told, she's also saving me in some ways. She knows I'm submissive and she says she loves being a Domme, but she doesn't know that I'm into the extreme side of BDSM. What I've done is I've bought a bunch of toys that are coming in the mail one-by-one. What I'm hoping is that I'll show her the toys and she'll want to use them on me. I'm pretty sure she won't even flinch at the canes, paddles, whips and cuffs. What I'm worried about is the day I tell her I have an elaborate sissy maid fantasy and I want to be shit on. I'm trying to think of how I can bring these things up with her gently. I was thinking about sitting her down one day and explaining what makes a good Domme and how I'm normal despite my fetishes. Another thing I was thinking of doing is showing her Lady Cheyenne cbt videos and saying "Do it like that." Does anyone else have any experience with this?