People can be noisy and gossipy. Did you hire contractors to help with building the dungeon? How do you think someone found out? Could you be reading too much into it? It is lousy that you are going through that. I've been through it but I was a single young woman who obviously did well for herself. Neighbors speculated that I was a stripper. It wasn't comfortable, especially for someone who kept their home exceptionally well and minded their own business. Now that I am in my late 50's, people know about my career and videos. But, they don't care. It is so situational. I wish that there was good advice to offer, but it is different for everyone.
