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#2188 10/26/2024 10:55 AM
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Curious if you see CBT and CBB as separate activities and why very few Dommes seem to specifically include CBB in addition to CBT on their lists of activities?

I a huge fan of the C&B bondage aspects (humblers, parachute harnesses used in predicament rigging and other forms of restraint ) but many types of popular CBT like crushing or ball busting/kicking have zero appeal. I certainly have engaged in CBT but find things like electricity, weights or something like a Kali's bracelet far more controlled and precise than the seeming brutality of a punch or a kick.

Curious if this differentiating is common?

I've been told I am on the fussy or particular end of the scale on more than one occasion. smile One Domme teased me once about being a "Goldilocks". Activities had to be not too much, not too little but just right. grin

I find I tend to differentiate between things like humiliation and degradation too. With the latter being a turn on in session and the other leaving me cold.

I think part of it is wanting clear communication and to make sure both parties have the same understanding of terms.


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furfan #2193 10/26/2024 07:01 PM
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It is the same for me. I've zero interest in hardcore pain especially in that area. What is a Kali's bracelet? I've never heard of one.

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Originally Posted by Scooby
It is the same for me. I've zero interest in hardcore pain especially in that area. What is a Kali's bracelet? I've never heard of one.

Lots of variations out there but these will give you the general idea. wink

https://www.amazon.ca/Stainless-Chastity-Exercise-Restraint-Bondage/dp/B077NX9ZB8

https://hotsteeltoys.com/ktb-chastity-device.html


The best designs have adjustable teeth so the Domme can dial in the desired effect.

https://www.dhgate.com/product/kali.../756949823.html?skuId=964853899502546944

My experience with these type of devices (at least in the way they have been used on me) is that they look more fearsome than the actual experience.....Although i expect the adjustable ones could certainly be intense if cranked down hard.

The real impact for me is psychological. On your hands and knees with a leash attached they provide an amazing motivation to keep up with the Domme as she strides off! grin

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furfan #2196 10/27/2024 02:09 PM
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A harsh blow would take me out of headspace. I like the subtle feel of an erostek or the stinging of a single tail to the cock and balls. A blunt force like a kick would be too much. C&B bondage I really like. It adds to the experience.


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Yeah, I probably like CBB better than CBT. The pain and torture is OK, but I prefer the headspace aspect rather than just pain.

Being locked in chastity for example is a huge mind fuck and could be considered bondage rather than just pain.

And being locked in chastity can be long-term. It could be for days, weeks or years. I could be locked in chastity under my clothes and only I and my Domme would know.

And... The right chastity device would fit snug, not cause any pain... But it puts the wearer in a vulnerable position. The Domme would know that just the slightest tap to the balls would be pretty painful.


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