I don't even have a guess at how word got out. Any help I needed was done before the space started taking shape. We have at least 10 cars whenever there is a party. My wife is worried that they think we are swingers because we never invite personal friends or neighbors. It looks weird, for sure. For now we are gonna brush it off and see what happens. If it comes down to moving, it will be in the country with no neighbors. We both like where we live but not to the point of outing ourselves.